3 Tips for Celebrating Mother’s Day and Father’s Day After Divorce

Robin M. Mermans, Esq
September 28, 2023

As I’m sure most moms can agree, there is nothing better than motherhood. The same goes for dads and how they feel about fatherhood. Our relationships with our children deserve to be celebrated every spring with Mother’s Day and Father’s Day. These holidays are so special for a parent and their children; however, when parents are separated or divorced, these celebrations may look a little different. I have a unique personal perspective as a mother who has been divorced as well as a professional outlook as a Collaborative Family Law attorney and co-parenting coach. Here are my top three tips for celebrating Mother’s Day and Father’s Day during and after divorce.

Be Thoughtful in Planning

As you and your parenting partner arrange weekends, align schedules with Mother’s Day and Father’s Day so your children spend it accordingly. As a mother, I always appreciated that it was a given that my children would spend Mother’s Day weekend with me. This was also the case for Father’s Day as they would always spend the weekend with their dad.

Acknowledge Other Family Members

While your child may just have one mom or one dad, there may be others who play an important role in their lives too. This might include grandparents (on one or both sides), stepparents, or godparents. Even if they’re not on your side of the family, acknowledging these individuals and helping your child wish them a happy Mother’s Day or Father’s Day can be really meaningful for not only this special person but also for your child.

Help Your Children with Gifting

If your children are young and unable to put together a gift for their other parent ahead of Mother’s Day or Father’s Day, lend them a hand. This could be helping them make a homemade card or craft, or maybe footing the bill for a gift they’d like to purchase. If your children are a bit older but not yet driving, perhaps you can take them shopping to pick something out in their budget.

These actions will not only show your children that you respect their other parent and family members, but will also demonstrate kindness and thoughtfulness – behaviors that are best learned by example.

We’re Here to Help

ROAD to RESOLUTION can help you effectively navigate your co-parenting journey. Our legal team can provide co-parenting guidance before, during, and after divorce. Please give us a call at (980) 260-1600 and we can discuss your legal options through divorce mediation and collaborative family law. Our Charlotte-based team is here to help you and your family in the Lake Norman area and beyond.

Robin M. Mermans, Esq
Founder and Principal Attorney

Related Articles

How to Discuss Changing Circumstances with Your Co-Parent

If you’re divorced with children, you know all too well how challenging it can be to navigate co-parenting plans. It’s not uncommon to have to modify a plan – especially as your children get older and their needs change.

When Parents Disagree on the COVID-19 Vaccination

When the COVID-19 vaccines were released for adults in early 2021, it was a sigh of relief for my family.

Legal Issues When Your Child Goes Off to College

While the personal emotions of seeing your children grow up and leave home do not get easier, there are things you can do to make the process easier in terms of legal and financial issues.

Contact our law firm today to schedule an initial consultation.